LOL, LucyLee -"if she tells military Dad everyone else has to change". We're hoping that the girls and the family atmosphere will all have a positive effect on her. If they find she needs further mental health help they have said they will get it for her. He, through military channels, has access to more than dd does. They meet with her case worker and local counselor on Monday and let them know what's happening. The case worker had an idea, but no one thought things might come together this fast. (I guess "fast" is relative here).
Oh, oh, dh just discovered that there is water in the heating ducts. (We turned the furnace on when we got back from DS-R's as I was so cold.) He just happened to look in the register at the end of the counter.