Thank you -- but you're not belated,
Mystery -- our anniversary is tomorrow, the 19th. But tomorrow is the ONLY day we can celebrate ds' birthday with everyone, so dh and I decided we'd call last night "our" celebration.
And boy... IKWYM --
I don’t know whether I am depressed or not physically up to it, or just plain unwilling.
Probably a lot of "unwilling" with me. I don't know what to do with me...
BUT -- it took about an hour and a half,
LadyM, but I did get the minutes typed for both meetings, emailed to interested parties, and saved on my back-up usb drive.
While I was doing that, dh took care of clearing the dining room table (which he SHOULD do, because all the stuff is his, except the flower arrangement and table runner. He keeps his bp machine and his Bible and devotional material on that table.) He asked me to move the two extra chairs to that table. So we've got 10 chairs now, for POSSIBLY 11 people.

There is a window seat in the dining room, where at least two people could sit. We know we will have 10; we just don't know about d?nephew. He never will commit to anything dbil asks him to do.
That is why we are in such a worry about Friday. If he ends up at the College Town when it is "supposed" to be OUR night... dh and ds are going to be sooo put out. DH said we should tell dbil we're going to stay Saturday night too, when it's "THEIR" night.
I know dbil thinks one young man doesn't make that much difference, b/c there's what he thinks is their bed, unused... but ds really wants to use it, LOL. And dh reminded me that last time we were down there with dnephew, he and ds flipped a coin for the bedroom, and ds won. So dnephew took to couch -- but then dh and I felt like we had to go to bed earlier, and dnephew got up and CLOSED OUR BEDROOM DOOR after we went to bed. DH did not like that one little bit -- he has to have the door cracked about 4-5 inches or he gets claustrophobic.
My goodness. Y'all pray with me that dnephew does not come in on Friday. Why he can't ride down with his dad and his sister (whom he only sees a few times a year) is beyond me. He's such a fair weather fan anyway. Refused to come to the Georgia game after we lost to Texas A&M.
This hour: (before church)
* Make-up
* Dust * quickly * in dining room and den