Thrift and Thimbles -- I don't think I have anything on either topic to contribute...
and I know it's late, it's actually Friday, but I wanted to catch up on this endless L*ST of CR*P I've had to do lately...
[x] Call florist for Saturday funeral
[x] Visit dfriend
[x] Update ds's map -- dh always put a pin in this large map we have in the study, for places ds had played, I'm keeping it up
[x] Finish laundry (except for folding the towel/rags that are in the dryer)
[x] Haircut at 2:00 (Thursday)
[x] Homecoming parade, deliver DGS at 5:00 pm, get parking place, pep rally afterwards
Remaining to do's for tomorrow and weekend
[ ] DGD's "Constitution Day" parade
[ ] Call high school, possibly buy tickets in advance for game tomorrow night
[ ] Go to ballgame with DS/family
[ ] Leave at 8:00 a.m. Saturday for band leader's funeral
[ ] Church Sunday
[ ] Funeral for dfriend's husband Sunday afternoon
Then there are the other things. None of these items below actually HAVE TO be done tomorrow or any particular time; no one cares... It's just the higher things on my priorities that I haven't done this week.
IN ADDITION TO THE THINGS THAT HAVE DEADLINES...
I have the following items that I KEEP writing, over and over and over, week after week... and they NEVER get done.
This is where y'all come in...

HOW do I motivate myself to tackle these open-ended items that no one cares about, but which I know need to be done, I want to get done, but I spend all my time sleeping... watching TV... playing on my phone...
I tell myself to spend FIVE MINUTES a day on ONE item... nope... doesn't get through to my head.
Here we go --
[ ] Vacuum/dust
[ ] Clean bathrooms
[ ] Type teacher group notes
[ ] Work on memory book -- compiling mementos from dh's funeral, flowers, FB posts
[ ] Transfer pictures from phone to computer
[ ] Organize/label those files on computer
[ ] Put printed photos in albums or photo boxes -- the albums are beginning to get out of hand and DS and I have discussed the space required to save them this way
[ ] Find first College Town pics of dgd and put in frame to match dgs'
[ ] Spray round-up on weeds in driveway
[ ] Prune shrubs
[ ] Call/text friends more regularly -- several I am trying to keep up with better
And I didn't even mention, work on my writing, declutter journals and writing, get back on track with zone cleaning, declutter closets, etc...
I know I need some kind of discipline, some kind of change in my routine, but I am just kind of hopeless re: my sleep schedule and everything. I manage anything that has a real deadline, but I just can't get a grip on the things where I have to set my own guidelines.
Thanks for listening, and please offer any suggestions you think I need to hear.