ordered from a river for mom
today: cook
get mom to walk, exercise, finding that mom is not getting intellicutal time or exercise like I would like - I sent home our caretaker a bit early bc she put mom in front of the tv and was on her phone. I find that it is hard to constantly keep mom going but we as a family have to fill that time. I took mom out and we watched the sun go down - I put on French music and we stayed outside for 2 hours. it was a lovely time.
-vacuum
-put away
-room by room
-learning
-clean bird baths and dog pools - refill
-pick up and put away in garden
I have to wash mom's hair in the morning
-learning
round robin zone work
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dd younger is going to try to take mom to b & Nobles
-I couldn't figure out why my verbena b. died - I emptied the container and it had what seemed to be, thousands of ants and ant egg. I have to move the soil to the back of the garden (it is on the patio). I wanted the ants to calm down over night so that they don't bite me so much. I emptied the big container - refilled with fresh dirt and planted a fall display: 3 brilliant sedum, a north wind grass, 3 purple small cabbage, 3 yellow type rebeckia - it looks really nice- perfect for fall and they can be put in the garden this fall
this morning mom was wide awake at 5:30 am talking to herself - dogs had to go out - mom chatted a lot - I was going to go in there but I did take a peak. I heard her talking to dd older at 6:30 when she came back from yoga. I checked again - the clock ding/donged at 7, took a cat nap, mom talked , ding/dong it was 8:00 - I tiredly woke up and made breakfast for mom. helper and I got mom up, helper cleaned her, I put out breakfast for mom and then I laid down for a bit. (I am still tired but the day is running away from me).
mom has been mentally with it for 2 days straight.
weak but with it.