the good this last weekend: had our young man who helps outside/and his brother move mom's boxes from the garage to the basement crawl space- what a weight lifted (visually).
dh did try to move things to my side in front of my shelves that I use all the time. I asked him to remove it. He meant well but he wanted it that way. I did thank him for trying to fix it - he parked my car in there - he then parked the other car behind so I couldn't get out if I wanted. dh loves cars especially in the garage. he likes to play "move that car - car shuffle over and over" . dd's are always amazed on how many times he moves the cars (no reason) but he loves it. I don't park my car inside until bad weather.
he was huge help with the young men! he enjoyed it! I love to see him happy!
this week work on: sanding
- dd youngers bedroom - empty by half at least - wash laundry that needs washing. 
work on my cc bill - check for things that can be discontinued.
fitness me
I have to focus! mom - creative time together. library?
August 31, 2026
Monday: going to my d brother in laws father's service. we have to leave at 3:10
dd older will come home early so that she can watch mom
helper has her first grief meeting tonight. Keeping my fingers crossed that dd doesn't have problems getting off and getting here on time.
clean oven, clean refrigerator
September 1, 2026 Tuesday: bathroom day
September 2, 2026 Wednesday my brothers birthday - I will have mom call him - I sent cards already -
Anti procrastination day - mom's room (cleaning ladies did it Friday!) grateful
September 3 Thursday errand day
September 4 Friday car day x/family room
September 5 Saturday dh's birthday!!! got his card/dd is picking up a cupcakes or something for dh - he doesn't eat sweets
September 6, Sunday
it took more time than expected