Thoughtful Thursday

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Thoughtful Thursday

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We haven't had a Thoughtful Thursday in a while, so I Thought it was time to think of how we can be thoughtful again.

How are you Thoughtful in your day to day life? Do you hold the door for strangers? Do you let other vehicles merge in front of you in traffic? Do you help strangers? Now here is the big question, we tend to be thoughtful of strangers easily but it is harder for us to be thoughtful of those close to us.

DS14 made me so proud Monday, we were at the Dollar Store and there was an older lady who had only come in to grab one thing but when we saw her she had her arms so full that she was a minute away from dropping something. As soon as he saw her he ran to the front of the store and got her a basket and then unloaded her arms organizing the basket as he filled it. She was so thankful and impressed that she just kept going on about how great he was for a good 5 minutes. :D

I need to work on being thoughtful with DBoys, who do you need to work on being thoughtful for?
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Ugh, it is so cold that we woke up without kerosene again... I can't wait till I can get ahead of the bills enough to order 100 - 150 gallons rather than doing this 10 gallons at a time crap. I think I am going to transfer $100 to DS20 and get him to make several trips today, I think I am also going to adjust the programmable thermostat down to try to conserve. Do you have any suggestions to help stretch my heating fuel? This morning it is 63* in the house and actually not to bad... I have it programmed for 68* during the during the day and late at night and then 70* in the mornings and evenings. I may set it for 66* during the day and 68* in the mornings and evenings.

We got a light dusting of snow so I need to make sure I leave right at 8am to be on time. Which means I had better get a move on. I have class tonight so I need to take my books with me.


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  • d2s (including make-up)
    :D coffee
    meds & vitamins
    fill coffee cups & grab lunch
    Out the door NLT 8am

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Hit L owes for window plastic things
K roger to return S&P shaker
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Good Morning

Scattered - excellent theme! Thank you

I have 5 minutes before taking LO to school. His AM cards are working so very well. At 4 years old he does them by himself. I do help by keeping things ready for him. He gets a big boost of confidence each morning when he checks his cards and sees that he as finished the last one. :)
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Scattered: certainly you can get by with 60 through the night. Some of the oldtimers here go down to 55 and up to 65 in the evening (lower in the day because sun picks up the slack.)

We use electricity and the nighttime rate is 1/4 the daytime rate so that affects our settings. Our programmable thermostat only allows 4 settings so we go with 69 from 4 a.m. until 7 a.m., 65 from 7 until 7, back up to 69 from 7 until 11 p.m. and then down to 60 overnight. We are home 24/7 so need the house warm in the daytime. If we were all out of the house, I'd set the daytime temp to 63 or 62 and have the setting warm things up before I got in the door. But this means we can have the same settings 7 days a week and not worry about holidays.

We have a waterbed which offers more heat than a regular bed but we have two mattress covers on it - a thin on on the bottom and a much thicker one (and sometimes we go to a feather bed but haven't yet this year because as I get older, I have 'internal' heating as well!) We use northern European style on top so we each have a single duvet with a duvet cover. We own two weights, summer and winter and I just put the winter one on because I found I was putting a blanket over top my side each night and not kicking it off.

In cold weather like this, I wear a yoga top and sleeping bottoms but normally I wear a negligee. Dh buys the negligees with the savings from his sleeping au naturel. I can't stand sleeping that way, even in heatwaves I'll have something on.

Warming the bed before getting in is key for me. I'll zap a bean bag and put it at my feet (my coldest part.) I also have a heating pad (and store my jammies on it, under the covers so they are heated when I turn it on before coming to bed.)

I always suggest to people to put an extra layer under them (flannel sheet to feather bed depending on preferences) and each of us having our own duvet means we can kick it off or pull it around us without disturbing the other. They overlap by about 18" on the bed and on super cold nights, I'll pull mine further over top of dh's and snuggle up against him and under two levels. Actually, that's how we figured out it was time for the winter duvets - two mornings in a row it was easier for me to get out of bed on his side, than mine since I was already over there (we have a king.)

Yes, the house feels cold in the daytime when it is -22 outside. Paying attention to window coverings helps (no sun coming in? leave them cold, everything shut up at night.) Wearing enough layers helps too. Shoes are essential. Period. No discussion on that one. We have slippers at the back door for guests and in non-boot weather tell them to leave shoes on. Wearing dress boots in extreme cold helps me a lot since it keeps my ankles warm too. In closer to freezing weather, I'll go back to shoes and leg warmers (which don't cover the ankles well.) Finally, there is a blanket on every single chair where we spend time, my office (which also has a lambskin under me), the family room and the living room. And extras for guests.

Keeping warm on the inside is good too. Spicy foods like chili and salsas. Hot foods like porridge and soups. And lots of tea or plain hot water. We have an Asian hot water pot, so it is "on tap" for us. Before I had that, I'd boil a kettle each morning and put it in a large thermos.

It has taken a few weeks for me to implement all my extreme cold weather routines (I'd forgot them because we've been traveling ti warm places every Jan/Feb since 2005 and because we've had very mild winters since 2005 as well.) Since I have, I have not been cold at all around the house and my productivity has gone up. Also am getting through the days without naps over 50% of the time.
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Good morning!

Just wanted to tell LILAC that some of the newer shower valves are meant to drip for about a minute after they are turned off. That is so the pipes are cleared. Our plumber explained that to me when we were getting the last house ready to sell. Can't remember if I relayed that info to our buyers...

Felt so bad yesterday. Didn't even go to the mailbox. Head and stomach hurt and arms and legs felt heavy and achy. I did have a flu shot back in the fall. Feeling better today. The lady who sits behind us at church sounded awful last week and of course we shook hands. Probably caught something there...or the grocery store...who knows.

scattered--66 during the day, 68 in the evenings, and 64 overnight is what we do. We could go lower at night, but then our heat pump would have to work so hard to bring the temp back up. BTW, I became a coffee drinker after years of living in cold places, just so I could get my hands warm!
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Morning y'all...

Boy, I love sleeping in the cold especially with an eletric blanket and down comforter. When I'm at my mom's house we always sleep with the heat way down...60 and a window cracked. I don't like sheets or pjs. Sweetie on the other hand needs both. Night house temps are something, the only thing really, that we battle over. If I had my way I would turn the night time heat off during the cooler months and have the heat come on 20 minutes prior to getting up. I hate summers because we set the air at 79 and I have to sleep with a fan blowing around me. Can't use the ceiling fan because Sweetie complains about it. There's been times when I've threatened to put our blow up bed outside and sleep there. Since we don't have bugs...too hot for them...it would be doable.

In the past I wore undershirts under my knit sweaters just to keep the chill off, but I was always freezing at work. I fixed that problem this year by buying long-sleeved thermal tops to wear under my sweaters...now why did I wait so long. I own 4 every day cashmere sweaters that I wear over my thermal tops. If I lived in the north I would wear everything cashmere if I could afford it. Its light wear, soft and keeps me warm. The part of my body from my shoulder/neck area is where I tend to get cold. I hate turtle neck shirts. I feel like I am choking in them. However they prevent those drafty feelings around my neck. When I get chilled you'll see me walking around the house with a long scarf wrapped around me. I usually put my electric blanket on high 15 minutes before I go to bed. Once I get in, I turn it off.

Funny story...Willis get to sleep out of the kennel every other night. He's suppose to sleep in his bed on the floor which is right next to me. Every once in awhile he sneaks up on the lower part of my side of the bed and hopes that I don't discover him till morning. The other night he decided to try something different. Instead of choosing the bottom of the bed he got up into the middle part and snuggled up to the curve of my back. I woke up in the middle of the night feeling particularly hot. I keep the controls of the blanket right next to my head and spent most of the night turning the blanket down and wondering why I was still so hot. Turns out Willis' hot body had generated so much heat that it had penetrated the area underneath me. I woke up in a sweat, saw the blanket was completely turned off and Willis sleeping next to me in a ball. Geesh i guess that's why they call them Hot Dogs :lol:

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I try to be kind to every one every day. I do little things for Sweetie all through the day. I always talk to the clerk at the grocery store....shes usually mean to everyone, but Sweetie has started teasing me about "seeing" my friend when we go in there. I say hi and thank you to everyone...the other day I gave a woman in front of me a 50% off coupon at Hobbie Lobby because her bill was really high and I didn't need it...think I saved her close to $50. Most of the time I don't care if people say anything back. It makes me feel good to do it and thats what I care about. The other day I left the waitress a hugh tip. My friend and I sat at her table for 3 hours talking. I was a waitress for many years, so I understand how the system works. If we had been normal customers we would hve been through in an hour ...that mean she could have turned that table 3 times making tips. Whenever I take up extra time on a table I always compensate for it. Know she was thinking about the tip money she was loosing as we sat there. Bet she had a huge smile on her face when she saw her tip. And that made me happy.
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Slow here today. I've been 'resting' most of the morning (after taking gd to school). I have been exhausted. We met DS-A & family at W ilderness L odge for dinner last night. Had reservations for 7:30 for 12 of us (including dgs 6 months). We got lost on the way in, DS called and they had gone to Ft. Wilderness so had to return to their hotel on another bus, get a different bus, etc, etc. So we all finally got there nearer to 8pm. Had a wonderful time and dbaby was disarmingly entertaining to us and everyone near us. When we finished nearly 2 hours later, DD decided to take DS's family back to their hotel in our car (instead of waiting for a bus). DS was trying to direct her and they once again were lost. DD got back almost 1 hour after she left (a 10 minute trip from their hotel. :lol: ) We finally got home at nearly 11 o'clock. I'm doing NOTHING today -other than traveling as needed and made the bed.

DS's family were going to Animal Kingdom today and heading back north tomorrow. WE've been able to see them a lot in the last week and we've all enjoyed every minute of it!

Got Med Co straightened out this morning. Don't understand it, but paid the extra still owing. Still can't understand why it wasn't just taken from our auto account. Evidently they will only do a draw up to so much (according to our insurance????) So I'm probably right in that dh's new inhaler is more expensive than most scripts. And I'm also quite sure that his meds for his esophagus are only for 45 days again. His Dr will have an absolute fit. And it also has no refills associated with it. I'm sure that's also an insurance issue. Dr wants him takeing double the usual dose.


I'm just rambling today so think I'll go close my eyes again. :roll: 8-)
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ellyphant, I will tell dh about the newer shower valves. Once we knew it was leaking, we could see 3 levels where there had been slight water damage. The plumber said that with the plumbing being 31 years old, that sometimes that happens when you are changing out fixtures. Dh had thought about replacing the plumbing when we started, but thought if it ain't broke, leave it alone. He ran that by the plumber who said that if it was him, he would be good to go. What had to be fixed was called a mixing valve, I think.

Was side tracked and this sat here, so will post and get busy again.
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Hoping Twins' Mom slept well !

Norma, how fun to have the visit from your dd and enjoy having her meet your friends.

LOL, Ivy, I figured you would like the classic writing transition of “meanwhile...”. Congratulations on recent story sale.

Elizabeth, congratulations also on placing the kitty in a home.

Best shower wishes, Lilac! How is dgd feeling?

CathyS definitely had the single best “meanwhile”! Hurray for partnership!

((Nancy and dgs)) homework done correctly and on time still improves his classroom learning, though, even if it's not the whole answer.

Harmony, I was amused at the nuts and bolts-filled end table.

scattered, good for you supplementing and eating right to beat the virus.

Emptynester, we were so happy for HRH's sister and her wonderful Alaska adventure. She recommends a trip there to everyone.

Yes, helia, that would be the best idea.

I see Sunny is joining Kathryn on the treadmill while checking in on us.

Very cool info from Cowinkie yesterday. Did not know a lot of that.

Btw, what I got out of Cowinkie's entire post today : Hmmm... Cowinkie went to Hobby Lobby and didn't tell me.

blessed, I have heard so many times of frustrations like your ddolder's. Advisers should be more accessible, offer more guidance, give more time, IMO.

Get well soon, ellyphant!

Dee, "Dr will have an absolute fit." Good! I think someone at MedCo may need to witness a doctor fit, that's my opinion!

School schedule disclaimer – I have now put 2 and 2 together :oops: and realize that there are only 4 periods per day at dd's high school. 3 semester-long academic courses take 90 minutes every day. And 2 alternating “A day, B day” courses of phys ed/health and music take 90 minutes every other day.

Long happy conversation with dd33 today. The 2 older grandboys are trying out basketball now and liking it. Her work is successful, although she says day to day happiness at work is a different matter. little britches was impressed with my card to her and decided it was his birthday now and took it for himself. :D They are planning to come visit us in a little over a week.
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hi I will say hi to all soon....
just got back and telling you great job!!!
it is always a joy to be here with you!
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