Start by doing what's necessary, then what's possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible. --- Francis of Assisi
Thank you, Sunny! You're the one!
Get well, Lilac (coughing) and Nancy (ears).
helia, might the quality of being "more" of a retriever possibly be what the breeder was going for? I know with beagles, breeding for the qualities of dedication to a scent and "harking" (reporting the scent with a bark) well can be the very qualities that prove litters are true-to-breed, but may not make new owners too happy at first! Potty-ing so much the first part of the day may end when she is more comfortable in the house in which she wakes! She probably just wakes up nervous to have a new home! (Hope so!)
By the way, I saw an alien today.
On the way home from school run, there he was, short, obviously walking, then sitting, his head as plastic-looking and oddly shaped as could be. I told myself, okay now, this is new, and I slowed down to stare as he turned toward me. It was a black lab in a "cone of shame".
((Kathryn)) Is it possible someone knows you were going to the conference and wants to make it as smooth sailing for you as possible to put the local concerns out of your mind? Still, you would think when you get back "all fired up" with bright ideas and good advice, they would want your input right away. Good for dh, as usual, to be so aware of your worth!
((Twins' Mom)), well, they're foolish. Sorry, but anyone who takes a meeting to historic low levels will be remembered and associated with the surprise/unhappy feelings people had at the moment. If embarrassment, they will be associated with embarrassment, etc. My dd33 recently recalled to me an unfortunate church incident from her youth, and I reminded her that some people didn't have all the facts and were operating without enough knowledge/education. She said what had mattered was whether they had love in their hearts, and she had been old enough to see then that they didn't.
Dstepson has been here through the morning doing some work outdoors. He came in and chatted a while, with stories from his grandfather.