Re: SUNDAY SUGGESTIONS
Posted: Sun Aug 12, 2012 12:47 pm
I seized on a chancy opportunity this morning.
If you're not a little nervous, you're not alive, right? After a miserable day yesterday (as far as social attitude, demeanor) this morning my ddad was suddenly chipper, clear-headed, alert and announcing he'd live to 100. So, with normal Sunday morning events already skewed, dd13 and I took him to see his sister, my aunt-of-the-daily-aprons. Dd loves going to see her.
It was an ideal visit, dd snapped photos, the two siblings talked at length about both memories and current lives very distinctly, and my ddad had little hearing trouble - nothing dear aunt couldn't handle. (He is trying the one-side-only hearing aid and it seems to help, but beyond that today is just a different day without explanation).
I did have to cut the visit shorter than dear aunt wanted, but I could tell my ddad was starting to lose his grip on clear conversation and was slipping into off-base dream-thought. By hopping up (dd too) and suddenly pretending we had to get moving, I brought him "back" enough to still chat amiably in small-talk while having to think other thoughts, like navigating doors and steps down. I'm so glad I handled it fast, because besides protecting dear aunt from worry herself, now she will have the enjoyment of sharing with other family that they could still have a good visit together. I said privately to her I could tell he was getting very tired and she admitted she noticed he was starting to say the same things over and over.
Today's apron fashion - Dear aunt92 looked amazing in a royal blue floral shirt-waist dress and a cream-on-beige vertical stripe half-apron with 2-inch self-ruffle.
Cowinkie, I'm sorry you are having itching - I think I missed something. What caused this?
Hope they have a great time rafting, Nancy.
It was an ideal visit, dd snapped photos, the two siblings talked at length about both memories and current lives very distinctly, and my ddad had little hearing trouble - nothing dear aunt couldn't handle. (He is trying the one-side-only hearing aid and it seems to help, but beyond that today is just a different day without explanation).
I did have to cut the visit shorter than dear aunt wanted, but I could tell my ddad was starting to lose his grip on clear conversation and was slipping into off-base dream-thought. By hopping up (dd too) and suddenly pretending we had to get moving, I brought him "back" enough to still chat amiably in small-talk while having to think other thoughts, like navigating doors and steps down. I'm so glad I handled it fast, because besides protecting dear aunt from worry herself, now she will have the enjoyment of sharing with other family that they could still have a good visit together. I said privately to her I could tell he was getting very tired and she admitted she noticed he was starting to say the same things over and over.
Today's apron fashion - Dear aunt92 looked amazing in a royal blue floral shirt-waist dress and a cream-on-beige vertical stripe half-apron with 2-inch self-ruffle.
Cowinkie, I'm sorry you are having itching - I think I missed something. What caused this?
Hope they have a great time rafting, Nancy.