Re: WEDNESDAY WANNA'S
Posted: Wed Oct 01, 2014 4:23 pm
Loved the song, Lucylee. Yes, it's a shock to parents when a child just up and leaves... at least mine went away to college first so it didn't seem so bad.
We have real communication problems here also. I see it's not unusual. We have 3 things, the usual man-impatience, and the fact that he doesn't hear well, and a medical symptom I have from medicine and age of searching for a word. When I stop to think of the word DH gets impatient. He often doesn't hear what I say and will repeat what he "heard" and it's always funny, with the right amount of syllables, but entirely different meaning. I learned very early in our marriage he was not going to be my conversationalist partner, chatting away and sharing feelings. It took me a long time to get over that, but now I don't try talking with him unless it's to share a fact or something important he needs to know. For conversation and chatting fun I have you guys and a couple girlfriends.
Made the trip out to jobsite (it's 2 interstate exits away) and helped clean up jobsite. Also went to a shop with dsil and helped her pick out some stuff. I thought she was much more decisive abut things, but am finding her different now that her DH has passed on. A lot of the stuff I credited her with doing, I'm sure now her DH had decided.
Boy it was hot out there. I still feel hot. My garden likes the weather, though, all my seeds seem to be popping up. Think I'll go put my feet up.
We have real communication problems here also. I see it's not unusual. We have 3 things, the usual man-impatience, and the fact that he doesn't hear well, and a medical symptom I have from medicine and age of searching for a word. When I stop to think of the word DH gets impatient. He often doesn't hear what I say and will repeat what he "heard" and it's always funny, with the right amount of syllables, but entirely different meaning. I learned very early in our marriage he was not going to be my conversationalist partner, chatting away and sharing feelings. It took me a long time to get over that, but now I don't try talking with him unless it's to share a fact or something important he needs to know. For conversation and chatting fun I have you guys and a couple girlfriends.
Made the trip out to jobsite (it's 2 interstate exits away) and helped clean up jobsite. Also went to a shop with dsil and helped her pick out some stuff. I thought she was much more decisive abut things, but am finding her different now that her DH has passed on. A lot of the stuff I credited her with doing, I'm sure now her DH had decided.
Boy it was hot out there. I still feel hot. My garden likes the weather, though, all my seeds seem to be popping up. Think I'll go put my feet up.