Happy Friday!
Summer vibes are still strong with you, aren't they,
kittykatt!
For the first time in over two months, I get to have a work from home day without kids around! Of course, the downside of this arrangement is that I had to get up at 5:30 to help get them ready for school, but good things come at a price
The getting back to school week is tough, and it's not helped by the fact that work is super busy after everybody got back from summer hols, so I not only never got here since Monday, but also let the house slide into chaos.
What helps even less is more family drama. This will get deleted later on, but SIL, in her stupid greediness, managed to do something which would criminally implicate not only her, but also my husband. I think I will be able to roll everything back, but it won't be in writing till the end of the month, and I won't be sleeping well till then. I am slightly mad at my own husband, who, despite being married to a lawyer for over twenty years, still will sign things without consulting me and leave me dealing with the inevitable fallout. Also less than slighly mad at him for still making excuses for his sister, like "she didn't realize that it was wrong!" - like, dude, she's a selfish cow who has you jumping through hoops at the expanse of your immediate family and you keep falling for it every single time and you still don't see it?
I've already made up my mind - I do not want to see her or talk to her this Christmas. Depending on what happens between now and Christmas, I will either fake an illness, sending DH and the kids alone, or be frank abour my motivation. I do like DBIL, he's a decent guy, and I have no beef with him, but I don't know whether I can ever forgive her for the strain she's been putting on our marriage and for seriously endangering one of "my people". Fiercely protective of my own is one of my core values (another one is "doing things right even if it's less convenient", so you get how well this has been sitting with me), and if this was my sister, I'd go no contact without thinking twice.
But yeah. Family drama means that I get emotionally exhausted and things get chaotic. I've done tons of overtime this week (with a 12 hour business trip planned for next week) so I won't feel bad if I don't clock my full 6 hours today and work on getting things under control while kids are at school!
TaDas
- breakfast and coffee
- dressed to shoes
- snacks for all kids
- see everyboy off the door
- internet time
ToDos
- morning routine
- 45 on cleaning
- get started on work
Braindump
routines
- emails
- lessons learned presentation for Tuesday
- comments to contract re ITC support?
routines
- midday routine
- afternoon routine
- evening routine
food
- dinner
- bake something sweet
- feed breadstarter
- freezer cooking
organization
- pay library fee renewal
- arrange for drop-off of old mattresses at the dump
- order new vacuum cleaner and cooker hood
- make apt - obgyn
- 15 on filing
- plan for September
- print materials for H&H plan
cleaning
- defrost garage freezer
- clean twins' room (oversee it done)
- clean DS15's room (oversee it done)
- clean kitchen
- clean living room
- clean downstairs bathroom and hallways
- clean office
- spiff up master bedroom
- spiff up master bathroom
- spiff up DBD's room
- clean out / reorganize attic
- deep cleaning in office - H&H plan
laundry
- load of colors
- load of cottage linens
- load of cottage sheets
- ironing
- folding
- mending
- laundry put away
garden and outside
- run pool vacuum cleaner
- watering and feeding flowerpots
- feeding veggie garde
- weeding in veggie garden
- weeding in front garden
- deadhead climbing roses
- pick up - front garden / porch
- pick up - backyard
- spiff up carpool
- spiff up garage
- reseed in veggie garden
- plant fall flowers in flowerpots
- mow the lawn?
me time
- 15 of exercise
- Bible study
- reading
- sewing?