Happy Saturday!
I'm still hanging in there. Trying to keep a sense of normalcy in a situation which is very much not normal - I think
helia could probably relate, though if I recally correctly, your mom was already in care home when your dad died? DMIL has some kind of surgery planned for next week, so she'll be in hospital from Sunday till Tuesday or Wednesday at least. In any case, we're leaving for a 3 day family trip (Friday is bank holiday) on Thursday evening and DH is adamant we go no matter what. He's rather unhappy with his sister at the moment, because she doesn't involve him in any planning or scheduling (or answer calls or texts) and just expects him to step in whenever she needs, completely disregarding that it's a two hour drive for us and that we both work full time with four kids and no help whatsover, so we just need to PLAN to be able to add caring for MIL to our already crazy lives.
Anyway, enough of my rant. Up extremely early today - since 4:45, because DS has a youth beekeeper contest (he's in a beekeeper club at school and this is an annual event for schools that have beekeeper clubs) and the rande-vous was at 6:30 in the city. DH is driving him, but of course I was up to see him off. Also on the menu for today is DBD's scout field trip with rande-vous at 8:25 in a different town, and twins' birthday party, for which they opted for a jump park (we have a reservation from 4 to 6pm) and a sleepover. I think I am going to collapse in bed at about 9pm tonight!
TaDas
- up at dark oh thirty
- breakfast and coffee
- dressed to shoes
- readied DS' stuff (he really wasn't coherent at 5 am!)
- washed my hair
- morning routine
- load of cleaning rags
- 1 cake base baked and cooling
ToDos
- bake 2nd cake base
- ready DBD's stuff (including packing her lunch)
- 30 minutes downstairs, following the chatGPT-generated list
Braindump
routines
- midday routine
- afternoon routine
- evening routine
food
- lunch
- dinner
- bake something sweet
- feed breadstarter
organization
- drive DBD to rande-vous point
- buy soda for twins' party
- twins' birthday party
- download tax stuff to my laptop so I can work on it while overseeing them
- update land contract
- home insurance!!!
- 15 on filing
- 15 on anniversary planning (well... I think under current conditions, I am giving up on that)
- homework and backpacks
- plan for rest of April and May
- pay balance on the trip
cleaning
- clean office
- clean out / reorganize attic
- spiff up DBD's room
- spiff up twins' room
- spiff up DS1's room
- spiff up master bedroom
- spiff up master bathroom
- spiff up kitchen
- spiff up living room
- spiff up downstairs bathroom and hallways
laundry
- load of darks
- load of outgrown darks
- load of outgrown lights
- ironing
- folding
- mending
- laundry put away
garden and outside - weekend
- repot a new rose
- repot seedlings I bought
- work in raspberry patch - pruning, fertilizing, replanting
- prune fruit trees - blooming pit fruits
- prune bushes
- prune climbing roses
- pick up - front garden / porch
- pick up - backyard
- start cleaning out the carpool
- fertilize fruit trees and bushes
- fertilize conifers
- start oiling garden furniture
- run pool vacuum
- fertilize vegetables
me time
- 15 of exercise
- Bible study
- reading