LadyM found that she needed to ask others to Step Up, and now her ds is grooming her lawn to his careful standards - what a good outcome.
Maybe you're surprised to find that there's a gap in your own responsibilities that you missed and you need to Step Up. Or maybe delegation is a wise call on some responsibility right now. Or working with someone, in order to teach and/or in order to make quick work of it. Is there some chore or need that is OMM for you? Ponder whether it is you or someone else who might Step Up and make the most difference.
Step Up Saturday
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Re: Step Up Saturday
Thank you for starting us off on this sunny Saturday Harriet.
I have been going slowly and steadily this morning. I am doing litter boxes (all 3) and the kitchen compost has been taken out along with the garbage from the bathroom. I have been seriously contemplating getting a cleaning company to come in once a month because I would love it if the entire house was all clean all at the same time. I can't do more than I am already doing. Dh can't do much any more. He has trouble carrying anything from the fridge to the table or the table to the sink. He can't help his condition and I need to be more watchful with what I ask him to do.
On the other hand, I told our weed whacker guy that dh no longer wants him to come over to whack our weeds. I had to go to this guy's work because dh claims he sent this guy "texts" and "emails". Dh has had a hard time with the right terminology for these ways of communicating electronically. Weed whacker guy said he hasn't had any texts or messages or calls from dh in months. I looked on dh's phone a few days ago and he hasn't been in touch with this guy by texts or phone calls at all in over a year. We think we have found someone else and I will be in touch with them on Monday.
I need to get up and keep slowly and steadily working at basic things. I want to get some cross stitching done today.
Later,,,
Another litter box is done. I also brought in the two boxes of disposable underwear for dh that have been in my car for a few days. I might even bring in the huge bag of cat litter from the truck at some point today. I have shut all the windows and blinds/curtains and turned on all the fans and window A/C units. It's going to be hot later and there isn't a cloud in the sky right now. First load of laundry is in the dryer. I have another load waiting in the washer. I need to strip the bed after dh gets up. I need to empty the dishwasher. I have emptied the dish rack. If nothing else, I would love to get the entire kitchen cleaned before I go to bed tomorrow night. Fingers crossed for that outcome.
I have been going slowly and steadily this morning. I am doing litter boxes (all 3) and the kitchen compost has been taken out along with the garbage from the bathroom. I have been seriously contemplating getting a cleaning company to come in once a month because I would love it if the entire house was all clean all at the same time. I can't do more than I am already doing. Dh can't do much any more. He has trouble carrying anything from the fridge to the table or the table to the sink. He can't help his condition and I need to be more watchful with what I ask him to do.
On the other hand, I told our weed whacker guy that dh no longer wants him to come over to whack our weeds. I had to go to this guy's work because dh claims he sent this guy "texts" and "emails". Dh has had a hard time with the right terminology for these ways of communicating electronically. Weed whacker guy said he hasn't had any texts or messages or calls from dh in months. I looked on dh's phone a few days ago and he hasn't been in touch with this guy by texts or phone calls at all in over a year. We think we have found someone else and I will be in touch with them on Monday.
I need to get up and keep slowly and steadily working at basic things. I want to get some cross stitching done today.
Later,,,
Another litter box is done. I also brought in the two boxes of disposable underwear for dh that have been in my car for a few days. I might even bring in the huge bag of cat litter from the truck at some point today. I have shut all the windows and blinds/curtains and turned on all the fans and window A/C units. It's going to be hot later and there isn't a cloud in the sky right now. First load of laundry is in the dryer. I have another load waiting in the washer. I need to strip the bed after dh gets up. I need to empty the dishwasher. I have emptied the dish rack. If nothing else, I would love to get the entire kitchen cleaned before I go to bed tomorrow night. Fingers crossed for that outcome.
Dishes never stop.
Laundry never stops.
Litter boxes never stop.
Paper never stops.
Laundry never stops.
Litter boxes never stop.
Paper never stops.
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Re: Step Up Saturday
I have been up and we got some steps in on our walk.
I noticed as I put out apples ten per bag each morning 50 this week were all gone.
I got the last ready to go this weekend.
Also saw two quail families and baby quail around too!
That made my walk worth it.
Had bfast.
I've been working on my at & journals.
Got the hose moved to mow in a bit.
Waving to everyone.
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On a break I waited till 9 to mow.
I will mow at 8 next week.
77 feels like 81* and it was only part in the shade.
Hydration is happening now.
I noticed as I put out apples ten per bag each morning 50 this week were all gone.
I got the last ready to go this weekend.
Also saw two quail families and baby quail around too!
That made my walk worth it.
Had bfast.
I've been working on my at & journals.
Got the hose moved to mow in a bit.
Waving to everyone.
-----
On a break I waited till 9 to mow.
I will mow at 8 next week.
77 feels like 81* and it was only part in the shade.
Hydration is happening now.
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Re: Step Up Saturday
Good morning
I am moving slow this morning as my body is letting me know that it remembers the extra work done yesterday. It is a good kinda of hurting.
I've checked all the local restaurants/food trucks to see if anyone is open today. Most are closed as they are taking vacations. I did find a one of our favorite food trucks will be at the Noodling Tournament today. I have no interest in watching the noodling (I think they are a bit nuts to do it!) but we might attend just for the food. We will see how it goes.
In the meantime, I've cooked tuna patties, sweet teriyaki chicken and French toast sticks this morning. It might be a weird combination, but it works for us.
I am moving slow this morning as my body is letting me know that it remembers the extra work done yesterday. It is a good kinda of hurting.
I've checked all the local restaurants/food trucks to see if anyone is open today. Most are closed as they are taking vacations. I did find a one of our favorite food trucks will be at the Noodling Tournament today. I have no interest in watching the noodling (I think they are a bit nuts to do it!) but we might attend just for the food. We will see how it goes.
In the meantime, I've cooked tuna patties, sweet teriyaki chicken and French toast sticks this morning. It might be a weird combination, but it works for us.
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When life gets difficult, learn to sing & dance in the rain.
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Re: Step Up Saturday
Thank you Harriet for stepping up and getting our corner of the village up and moving!
I stepped up to two laps with ddog this a.m. It's hot. I'm needing more than 7K steps today so I thought I'd get in two laps while weather was okay. We're supposed to have t storms - getting rain right now in fact.
I stepped up to two laps with ddog this a.m. It's hot. I'm needing more than 7K steps today so I thought I'd get in two laps while weather was okay. We're supposed to have t storms - getting rain right now in fact.
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